August 30

When I went to the walk in clinic to have my infected finger treated, I was asked a question that has bothered me this whole time. I guess that there is a new category of person, male, female ,widow. I was a little taken back. Until then, no one questioned my status. I didn't have a label. Is it important to know what I am. Is this a question that I will asked now on. Do I look caucasian ?  Do I look female? Do I look widow? Will my health insurance look at me differently when they get my information. Did I hold out on them for 13 months because I was unaware that I was a new category. Is this something I have to change about me. This has worried me when I took time to think about it. I still feel married. Maybe the next time that I am asked that on a survey or questionnaire, I'll say " married".

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04.07 | 08:10

I read the last page first too. It’s a family curse.

22.05 | 08:38

so glad youre here mom!

29.08 | 13:45

Don't quite know how this got to me but it was on the top line of my computer (not in email) But I really enjoyed it. I truly admire you.

31.07 | 07:02

Leona, do you have a date or a booked flight that you come back ?

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