March 21

I went to my first funeral, since Bob died, at the Sarasota National Cemetery . It was the funeral of a Sisterhood member's Mother. I visit Bob's grave almost every week, but this is the first time that I was there for someone else. It was hard. The pavilion where the service was held was the same one we used. The plain wooden casket was exactly the same as the one we had for   Bob . Even some of the same people were in attendance. It wasn't as if I was reliving the day, but it was very sad for me. When I  visit Bob's grave, I am often not sad or unhappy. I go to  visit not to be sad. I feel as if it is a respectful thing to do. After all, we were together for over 65 years. He is the person who I have known longer and more intimately than anyone else. When I go to  visit the grave, I know that we were a couple until the moment he died. So I am not sad, I have wonderful memories. I really had the best.

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06.06 | 13:55

🌞👋😊. Hope you get it Leona. I can see you moving there,you would be happy and content with your son 😊. At some point when your both ready.

19.05 | 10:55

Good Morning Leona!
Your descriptions of our beautiful country are so vivid that we're all
sharing your wonderful adventure! Thanks Dude!🤗
Love from 724

18.05 | 07:58

Isn’t Pearl Street Mall fun So full of different shops. Went to the synagogue last night.

13.05 | 07:45

Good Morning Yew Tew❗️💁
Thinkinaboutcha both this morning as you head off on your
exciting adventure❗️🤗❤️❤️ God Bless❗️
Much Love, Kate

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